for your own good

Sometimes life is not what we expect it to be, and that makes us sad because we want it to be like something that is nearly impossible to be. There is always a reason for anything that happens in one's life, and from what I have learned, that's for your own good, no matter how hard the circumstances might become, no matter how harsh the events, that is something that leads us to the final blessing in the judgement day.
In that day, you will sort of look back to your life, to all you have been through, you will nod and smile and maybe with a few drops of tear, you will thank God, for letting you grow and for letting you be what you are! So enjoy the pain! Strive for more! Little is not enough! Cry loud when you feel the pain and never forget! that this is for your own good!